I walk the forgotten road, the one less traveled to love. There are many turns, a few surprises. But no signs waving caution. I call it life. Once and a while you’ll find someone to share the forgotten road with. You’ll share stories and get to know each other more than you intended to, but eventually you’ll part and continue the walk alone. With each new person you meet and every new heart you break, there is always a new lesson you’ll learn and each new lesson will determine who you will become by time you reach love. True love.
The important thing to remember is life isn’t about finding yourself. Its more about creating yourself. The magic happens in “you” first. You’ll find most people who are in search of love are most likely to succeed, but only in their own minds. You see, true love comes from within, and the more we love ourselves, the more others will love us and in return, the more we will love them. Its a proven fact that if you don’t search for your true love, they will come to you. I promise you, there is someone for everyone.
Women: When he points out the smallest things about you, like the way you bite your lip when your nervous or the dimples in your smile, then give him a chance. When you giggle more and complain less or smile at the thought of his silly grin, then give him a chance. Ladies, if he laughs when you trip but is still willing to sleep with you then wake up. If he doesn’t call you back just to say goodnight…. again or make your winter the best summer you’ve ever had, then wake up. If he doesn’t take you to a fancy dinner just because its Wednesday night, then wake up.
Men: If she eats lunch with “him” but has sex with “you”, wake up. If she rather go to the club then spend time with you, then wake up. If you do less together and your wallet is thinner but her closet is full of your “generous gifts”, then wake up. If you notice your not “you” after a month of dating her, then wake up. Chances are, she isn’t the one for you.
I think the wrong choices we make in life are just as important as the right ones we choose to remember. Forgive and don’t forget. Always put your happiness first when starting a new relationship, even if the mirror calls you selfish. You are your worst enemy and your first lover. And you know what they say, you will always love your first…
Walk the forgotten road, the one less traveled to love.
